The way to change others’ minds ~ 14th Dalai LamaThe way to change others’ minds ~ 14th Dalai Lama was last modified: October 7th, 2016 by dorjeduckThe way to change others’ minds is with affection, and not anger. 14th Dalai Lama quoted in the book Everyday Greatness: Inspiration for a Meaningful Life Read a random quote or see all quotes by the 14th Dalai Lama.