Become Familiar with Fear ~ Pema Chödron

No one ever tells us to stop running away from fear. We are very rarely told to move closer, to just be there, to become familiar with fear. I once asked the Zen master Kobun Chino Roshi how he related with fear, and he said, “I agree. I agree.” But the advice we usually get is to sweeten it up, smooth it over, take a pill, or distract ourselves, but by all means make it go away.


Pema Chödron

from the book When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times

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