Viewing ourselves through the lens of interdependence brings certain qualities and values into focus. For example, when we hold to a sense of ourselves as utterly independent, we can come to believe and behave as if we were entirely self-made, as if our own individuality called together all the conditions needed to bring us into being. This can lead to false pride and overbearing arrogance, as if we independently created our own individuality and owe nothing to anyone. When we ignore our interdependence, we are disregarding the importance of others to our well-being. We devalue their contributions to who we are. This kind of pride is a symptom of narrow view. It is a harmful delusion that can seriously impair our ability to relate in healthy way to others.
17th Karmapa
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Further quotes from the book Interconnected :
- Experiencing connection rather than isolation
- Discovering new potentials
- Bringing about real change in the world
- Recollecting kindness
- Focusing on our inner interdependence
- A genuine sense of affection
- Individualism or interdependence
- Gratitude
- The power of our senses
- The full vividness of direct contact
- Self-discipline
- Inner conditions of interdependence
- Dismantling the walls that separate us
- Extend yourself and connect
- You exist in connection with others
- Remaining indifferent to the suffering of animals
- The opportunity to love
- Our life is like a vast net
- Time to act
- Extending gratitude in all directions